The internet is an interesting place. When we post pictures there is always a chance someone will download and share them. Sometimes for good reasons and sometimes for bad reasons. So what do we do when it's time to announce the birth of your baby? Do we share the pictures or wait until the "time is right?"
In a day and age where we give play by play of our lives online it's easy to say yes to posting pictures of our babies. But there are some people who like to wait and enjoy a web free experience with their family. It really comes down to your personal preferences. If you're a hesitant new mom and have doubts about sharing your newborn's photos to social media, consider the following: Even if you the original poster upload then take down private or sensitive family moments, anything published online has the potential to stay there permanently. Therefore, it's usually better to avoid posting a photograph in the first place rather than run the risk of "oversharing" a picture that can expose your baby to danger due to sensitive information.
If you are doubtful and worried about posting them early the reasons can include being fearful of someone grabbing pictures of your baby or it could just be the values you grew up with. You must also take into account close people around you who want to share your bundle of joy online too. The following steps will help to deal with and control how and what they post.
Warn them in advance: As soon as you make the decision to stop having your children's faces posted on social media, let people know. It makes no sense to wait to start a conversation until after someone posts an image. This may even entail informing them prior to the birth of your child!
Tell friends and family why to not post right away: Even though it may be awkward, you should make an effort to tell your family and friends reasons why you don't want them to post your baby's pics after birth to their social media. Describe your worries over safety and privacy, as well as the loss of control over images after they are shared online. As artificial intelligence get smarter, it will become easier to modify and photoshop photographs uploaded online, leaving a digital trail that will always exist without you knowing about it.
Be clear and direct: Be clear about whether you want no photos at all or if you’re okay with pictures being shared where the face is blurred. Being direct and giving them enough information will prevent misunderstandings and awkward moments.
So if you are posting them right away, it is also based on your values and more than likely you are sharing it with family and friends, who cannot be there in person, to be part of the joy. There is nothing wrong with posting and sharing special moments like the birth of your child, with close friends and relatives, but when sharing images of your baby we suggest you do not post detailed information on public boards, location of the hospital or home. Keep your announcement as basic and exciting as you can. At the end of the day share your joy responsibly.
